Women Set Off On Hajj As Male 'guardian' Rule Dropped

Women set off on Hajj as male 'guardian' rule dropped

Makkah, Saudi Arabia, (UrduPoint / Pakistan Point News - 21st Jul, 2021 ) :Bushra Shah, a 35-year-old Pakistani, says she is realising a childhood dream by making the great pilgrimage to Makkah, and under new rules she's doing it without a male "guardian".

The Hajj ministry has officially allowed women of all ages to make the pilgrimage without a male relative, known as a "Mehrem", on the condition that they go in a group.

The decision is part of social reforms rolled out by Prince Mohammed bin Salman in the Kingdom.

"It's like a dream come true. My childhood dream was to make the hajj," Shah told AFP, before setting off from her home in Jeddah, the major port city in western Saudi Arabia.

The hajj, one of the five pillars of islam, is a must for able-bodied Muslims with the means to do so at least once in their lifetime.

For the young mother, making the pilgrimage with her husband and child would have been a distraction that would have prevented her from "concentrating completely on the rites".

Shah is one of 60,000 pilgrims chosen to take part in this year's hajj, which has been scaled down for the second year running because of the coronavirus pandemic.

Only citizens and residents of Saudi Arabia, chosen in a lottery, are taking part. Officials have said that 40 percent of this year's pilgrims are women.

- 'Gift from heaven' - "Many women will also come with me. I am very proud that we are now independent and do not need a guardian," Shah said.

Her husband, Ali Murtaza, said he "strongly encouraged" his wife to make the trip alone, after the government's decision to ban children from participating in the hajj this year.

He will stay in Jeddah to look after their child.

"We decided that one of us should go. Maybe she will be pregnant next year or maybe the children will still not be allowed to participate," the 38-year-old said.

Marwa Shaker, an Egyptian woman living in the Saudi capital, Riyadh also shared same feelings for the permission given to perform Hajj without a guardian (Mehram).

"Hajj without a guardian is a miracle," the 42-year-old, who works for a civil society organisation, told AFP.

Now travelling to Mecca with three of her friends, the mother of three had tried several times to make the pilgrimage before the pandemic. But she was unable to because her husband had already been and was not permitted to go again so soon.

"I feel enormously joyful. God has called me despite all the obstacles," she said.

For Sadaf Ghafoor, a British-Pakistani doctor, travelling without a male guardian was the "only option".

"We couldn't leave the children alone," the 40-year-old said of her three youngsters.

Her husband decided to stay behind, and Ghafoor headed to Mecca with a neighbour.

"It was not easy to take the decision to go alone... but we took this opportunity as a blessing," she said.